Picture of Nozipho Ntshangase’s Husband’s New Wife Trends, SA Reacts to Stepchild “Switching Sides”

• South African reality TV star Nozipho Ntshangase became a hot topic recently after her stepchild's recent Instagram post
• The Mommy Club star allegedly cared for Coco when she was a young child, and this revelation made many jaws drop
• Social media users quickly reacted to the photos, offering salty remarks about Coco Ntshangase's 'behaviour'
• Briefly News spoke with relationship therapy educator, Paula Quinsee, who shed light on how blended families can make it work

Things are heating up on social media, and Nozipho Ntshangase is the hot topic. The Mommy Club reality TV star was dragged back into the spotlight after her stepchild's recent Instagram post.

It seems as though Coco Ntshangase has found a new home in Misokuhle Ntshangase, her father, Zola Ntshangase's new wife.

SA baffled by Coco and Misokuhle's photo

Netizens could not believe their eyes when a photo of Coco and Misokuhle went viral. The 17-year-old was allegedly cared for by Nozipho when nobody else was willing to at the time. Some people even claimed that Zola denied paternity, and the mother was not fully part of her life. All of this was apparently revealed by Nozipho herself during an interview on a podcast.

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Peeps quickly reacted to the photos, offering salty remarks regarding Coco Ntshangase's behaviour. Social media peeps wondered why she would switch up on Nozipho so quickly.

Briefly News gained some insights from relationship therapy educator Paula Quinsee on how blended families can navigate their family dynamics.

"Instead of forcing relationships (e.g. step siblings and stepparents), blended families can allow relationships to develop naturally. This can be done through shared activities, creating new family traditions, and agreed-upon house rules that help everyone feel included and that they are all part of the same family unit."

Below are some of the reactions from netizens under the post from @beyspope:

@Nhoza_ argued:

"Just because Coco is active on social media doesn’t erase the fact that she is a child. It’s quite immature for people to attack her or expect a child to choose sides."

@DebbieBloodmoon remarked:

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"The worst thing about sacrificing yourself is having someone say “I didn’t ask you” whether it be directly or indirectly. It’s unfortunate, it hurts but it’s true. That’s why they say “being a pick me doesn’t save you from misogyny, being someone readily available to a man’s every request doesn’t save u from their raft. Love and light, though."

@zintle25190632 said:

"No one is saying that she must choose Nozi over her dad; she could be a bit more thoughtful about how she handles this situation, especially where Nozi, who took her and raised her, is concerned. I don’t buy the whole she is young narrative either. She knows what she is doing."

@LesegoSheigo claimed:

"There’s no reward for step-parenting. The father didn’t want her. Nozipho drove to the Eastern Cape and did whatever needed to be done. DNA test and all, and fetch her to come stay with them, raised her as her own, and this is what she does? She is a kid, yes, but a kid who knows exactly what is going on and still does this."

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@LeboRed1 argued:

"Guys, but this is also her stepmother, whom the father wanted as a second wife, but our sister chose herself and left. Now this is the stepmom. We love Nozi, but what must the child do? Has the new wife ever ill-treated the kids or Nozi? Unfortunate situation, but it’s their reality."

Even The Real Housewives of Durban reality TV star, Ameigh Thompson, sparked discourse when she slammed stepchildren.

“Evil stepmothers always endure the longest, while we, who are like Bob the Builder, face the greatest challenges. If you have no relationship with your children as their father, it is better to leave it that way; trying to fix it may only make you the enemy."

Nozipho gets a mommy makeover

Meanwhile, Briefly News reported on Nozipho Ntshangase, revealing that she took bold steps to get a mommy makeover overseas.

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In the clip shared on her Instagram page, Nozipho said her confidence took a nosedive during her self-love journey.

"I have been on this self-love journey, and I think after having my last three kids and just umgowo nje in general, I realised that I struggled with loving myself and my confidence just plummeted, like literally, down the drain. I thought, uhm, why not do some work on myself and focus on both the outer and inner aspects at the same time? So, yeah, I did my research and contacted my doctor, the surgeon whom I wanted to perform this surgery on me."

Proofreading by Kelly Lippke, copy editor at Briefly.co.za.

Source: Briefly News