“I Would Die”: Woman Laughs at Broke Men in Mzansi, Sparking Outrage Over Her Insensitive Comments

• A woman posted a video where she laughed about men being broke and unwanted
• The viral clip received over 442k reactions, 26k shares, and 10k comments, with many viewers criticising her insensitive attitude
• South Africans had mixed reactions, with some defending her honesty about dating preferences
• Briefly News spoke to psychological expert Jayshri Rangasamy regarding choosing to date a potential partner and why money should never be the main objective

A young woman has divided social media after posting a TikTok video where she laughed at men who struggle financially, saying she would rather die than be a broke guy that no girls want.

Content creator @bongidee from the Free State shared the controversial clip on 17th June, which quickly went viral and sparked heated debates about money, relationships, and empathy.

In the video, the woman can be heard saying:

"At least I'm a girl and I'm not broke, imagine being a guy and being broke and no girl wants you, I would die."

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She burst into laughter as she made these comments, clearly finding the situation amusing rather than concerning.

The video exploded across social media, gathering over 442k reactions, 26k shares, and more than 10k comments from viewers who had strong opinions about her remarks.

The debate that blew up in the comment section highlights ongoing tensions about financial expectations in relationships. Some viewers supported the woman's honesty about preferring financially stable partners, arguing that money does matter for building a future together. Others criticised her for lacking empathy towards people facing genuine financial hardships, especially during tough economic times.

Mzansi reacts with mixed feelings

The video triggered thousands of responses from South Africans who felt strongly about the woman's comments.

@constablenhlapo hit back:

"At least we don't have to wear makeup and lashes to have the confidence to go out😭😭😞"

@ultrasoul_sounds encouraged positivity:

"Gents, let's not be mad, or take this to heart, let this be a motivation to push and work harder."

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@slie admitted:

"I know damn well I wouldn't have a girlfriend if I were a boy😭💔"

@amogelang_cameron showed sympathy:

"I'm a girl and I'd never laugh about that😢"

@loyiso responded:

"At least our voices are heard 😔"

@masterbique defended his priorities:

"I'm not broke... It's just that I don't give money to girls... I give it to my mom❤️💓"

@testimony_mbhony made a cheeky suggestion:

"I wish guys with money started dating women with money.🤣🤣🤣 We would see a movie 😂😂😂"

Why money matters in dating

According to Medium, financial security does play a role in modern relationships for practical reasons. Money creates stability in a world where basic needs like housing, food, and healthcare cost significant amounts. Research shows that men with higher incomes are more likely to get married, not because women are gold-diggers, but because financial security makes family planning more realistic.

The article explains that both men and women consider income potential when choosing partners, as financial stress can damage relationships. Women with university degrees also have better marriage prospects because education usually leads to better earning potential, showing that the trend affects both genders.

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Briefly News spoke to psychological expert Jayshri Rangasamy regarding choosing to date a potential partner and why money should never be the main objective. She stated:

"Choosing a partner wisely means looking beyond financial stability and focusing on deeper qualities that foster a healthy, lasting relationship. While financial responsibility is important, true compatibility is built on shared values, emotional intelligence, mutual respect, trust, and the ability to communicate openly and resolve conflicts together."

"A wise choice involves observing how a person treats others, handles stress, supports your growth, and aligns with your long-term goals. Love rooted in character, kindness, and emotional connection tends to endure far more than one based on material wealth alone."

Watch the TikTok clip below:

Other stories about relationships and money

• Briefly News recently reported on a woman who used her first salary to spoil her boyfriend after he supported her through unemployment, but what she bought him had people questioning her spending choices.
• A Cape Town woman went viral for her unusual method of chasing men away at Sea Point, but her animal-like behaviour left viewers wondering if she was serious or just playing around.
• A young woman admitted she used to be racist before meeting her husband, but the shocking family tradition she revealed had people questioning how deep the problem really went.

Source: Briefly News