“The World Needs More People Like You”: SA Loves Employer’s Home Rules for Her Domestic Worker

• A content creator and stay-at-home mom shared insights into maintaining a positive relationship with her household employee
• The detailed explanation of their unique working dynamic was captured and shared on the TikTok video platform
• Social media users were touched by the principles demonstrated, praising the level of mutual respect

A compelling discussion about fostering a harmonious relationship with a domestic worker captured widespread attention.

The insightful video shared on TikTok by @leratohlungwane resonated with many social media users who were moved by her approach.

The video outlined several practices that contribute to a good working relationship with a household helper. The creator explained that her domestic worker does not enter her and her husband's bedroom, as they consider it a sacred and private space.

This arrangement allows her husband, who works from home, to comfortably use the bedroom for naps or breaks without concerns about someone else being present. Regarding laundry, the helper washes clothes and hangs them downstairs, but @leratohlungwane fetches and puts them away.

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Cultivating a respectful home

She also mentioned that she takes on the responsibility of cooking for the family daily, opting for takeaways, dining out, or having her husband cook on days she cannot. The mom cherishes bathing her two young children, a four-year-old and a baby, a few months old, viewing this time as a precious bonding opportunity.

She noted that her helper assists with general house cleaning and prepares lunch for her when making her husband's meal. Conversations are kept short and polite, avoiding lengthy chats or discussions about television shows. The creator stated that she addresses her toddler's misbehaviour, aiming for a happy environment for everyone, and confirmed that her helper expressed contentment six months prior.

SA praises the employer

The clip gained massive views, likes, and comments, with many social media users deeply impressed by the creator's thoughtful approach. A common thread in the comments was praise for her respect towards her domestic worker and her evident commitment to not overworking her.

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Many highlighted how refreshing it was to see such clear boundaries and mutual consideration in a domestic work arrangement. Some appreciated the balance struck between the helper's duties and the household owner's responsibilities, commending @leratohlungwane for fostering a positive and fair working atmosphere.

User @lindz840 said:

"Just like my madam. I don't enter her bedroom, cook, or do the washing. Even the baby is one. I only do ironing, both clothes. She helps me with anything if I am busy with ironing. She puts dishes in the dishwasher, but we do talk thina. We laugh, she's so sweet, she's a blessing, I thank God for them ❤."

User @BossladyM commented:

"When you mention she doesn't go to your room, I went straight to leave a heart before I could even listen to the whole video."

User @barepel shared:

"I like a boss like this. I prefer not to chat with my boss 🥰. Big up."

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User @lady Jay added:

"I don't have a helper but am planning to get one. This was helpful, thank you."

User @Keabetswe Mokate commented:

"Hi Mommy. You have such a beautiful aura. You are also a wonderful employer. I relate to all your points. My helper and I get along quite nicely because we both understand our duties. I also cook daily and do my laundry, and she does the ironing and cleaning. I also love the fact that you do disciplined when it comes to the kids. Kids must understand that helpers must be respected the same way they respect their parents. This also helps to have a healthy relationship at home.

User @kuda021 said:

"Allow me to thank the person who raised you🥰. The world needs people like you."

Watch the TikTok video below:

3 Brief news articles about domestic workers

• A local homeowner sought public advice after struggling to find and keep reliable helpers despite offering R7.2K salary and other generous benefits.
• A local lady detailed how her helper took her car without permission, got into an accident, and injured her child, who was in the car with her.
• A domestic worker waited until her employer left for work, then prepared herself a meal with grilled meat, but her boss had to turn back to fetch her charger and walked into the scene.

Source: Briefly News