“They Bring Gifts”: South African Woman Shares What You Should Know Before Dating a Pakistani Man

• A South African woman shared her experiences and insights about dating a Pakistani man, highlighting both the challenges and affectionate gestures that can define such relationships
• She listed things to know before dating a Pakistani man, including their expectations of dependency, protectiveness, and cultural differences in social life and household duties
• Her video has sparked debate on cultural dynamics in cross-cultural relationships, with many South Africans sharing their thoughts and opinions on the matter

Bathong! When love knows no bounds. A South African woman got candid about her relationship with a foreigner, where she listed things she believes women should know before dating a Pakistani man.

In her detailed account, which she shared on social media, it has gained over 1 million views on TikTok within a day of its publication. The stunner highlighted both the challenges and the affectionate gestures that often define such relationships.

SA woman lists what you should know before dating a Pakistani man

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Taking to her TikTok handle @maureenmahlako stated that one of the first things to understand is that many Pakistani men prefer their wives not to work or study.

“They provide financially with a monthly allowance,” she explained, adding that this arrangement often comes with expectations of dependency.

@maureenmahlako further shared that independence in social life may be limited, saying:

“You are not allowed to go anywhere without them. They will accompany you everywhere.”

This is a way of them being protective towards their partners. On the other hand, she noted that many Pakistani men express love through consistent acts of affection.

“If they haven’t seen you all day, they’ll bring you gifts,” she said.

However, according to @maureenmahlako, their attachment can also be overwhelming at times.

“You miss one call… now he’s video calling you all day," she expressed in the footage that was posted by her on 19 August 2025.

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Interestingly, she pointed out that household duties are not always one-sided, as the men often cook for their wives while the women relax or watch TV.

"Showing care and affection,” she revealed.

@maureenmahlako stressed that dating a Pakistani man often extends beyond the individual, as family plays a central role. “You’re not just dating him, but his whole family,” she said. She described them as “jealous and protective,” warning that something as small as looking at another man could “declare war.”

She also claimed that clothing choices are usually subject to a partner’s approval.

“You don’t just wear anything, they decide for you what you should wear,” she explained.

Despite these restrictions, she acknowledged their sweet side. “They call you beautiful 50 times a day, and yes, you will start believing it."

@maureenmahlako concluded by noting that Pakistani men are “big on family, faith, and tradition,” making respect an essential part of the relationship. Still, she cautioned that small issues could “trigger intense reactions” due to short tempers.

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"I live for Pakistan, and I will die for biryani."

Her reflections have stirred debate on cultural dynamics in cross-cultural relationships, leaving many South Africans intrigued by her insights into dating experiences with Pakistani men.

Watch the video below:

Mzansi peeps weigh in on Pakistani relationship

South Africans had mixed reactions over the woman's post as they flooded the comments section expressing their thoughts, saying:

Oe said:

"Me going to Pakistan."

Gabi Kb added:

"Enjoy the love, dear. You can find love anywhere. Umphathe kahle umkhwenyane if akuphethe kahle ney ntombo."

Ntando stated:

"Depending solely on a man and not furthering your education or working is a recipe for disaster."

Lydia commented:

"Pakistani men are the best, okay!!"

Mrs Chaz wished well, saying:

"May God bless your union."

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• Briefly News reported that a South African woman has left many stunned on social media after revealing the benefits of giving her Pakistani boyfriend a chance, and Mzansi is loving the soft life she’s living.
• One South African woman was loud and proud about her preference for foreign men. The lady posted a TikTok video about the biggest benefit of being married to someone who is not from South Africa.
• A woman has become the talk of the town after she shared how she took a risk by giving a taxi driver a chance, and the results have been unexpected.

Source: Briefly News