“My Queen, I Respect You”: Woman Spends 30 Days at In-Laws for Makoti Induction

• A recently married woman shared a vlog detailing a day in her 30-day makoti induction at her in-laws, showcasing her daily duties and new expectations
• The clip was posted on TikTok, where it went viral and became a major talking point among social media users
• Viewers were amused by the woman's casual attire, while others weighed in on the tradition of staying with in-laws and the expectations placed on a new makoti.

A happily married woman captivated social media with a video detailing one of her 30 days of training as a makoti at her mother-in-law's home.

The clip, shared by TikTok user @kamogelomokgabudi, garnered massive views, likes, and comments from social media users who debated the need for 30 days at the in-laws.

The woman begins her vlog in the morning with her facial routine, then gets dressed to begin her duties. She is seen in a hoodie and short tights, taking the rubbish out and getting ready to clean the house. She mentions that her mother-in-law later asks for tea and told her she is not properly dressed for her duties in her tights. She then changes into a traditional skirt.

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Learning makoti duties and family traditions

She is then seen sitting on a traditional mat (ukhukho) while, according to her, receiving words of wisdom about her new journey, which usually includes a list of dos and don'ts as a makoti. After the induction, she is released to continue with her chores. She then does laundry and prepares vegetables for the next day, Sunday's lunch, which she plans to make easier by preparing the veggies on Saturday.

Netizens debate the roles and duties of makotis

The video went viral, with many viewers finding her choice of clothing amusing and daring. The comments section was filled with a mix of lighthearted jokes and serious discussions about makoti traditions.

Many expressed that they found the concept of staying at the in-laws for an extended period a bit odd, though they respected that it was a cultural expectation in other communities. Some shared their experiences and opinions on the duties expected of a married woman. Others joked that they were too lazy for marriage, as they did not even cook for their own families and would not be able to cope with the expectations placed on them.

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User @phumzilephumimazi added:

"A full 30 days? My queen, I respect you immensely."

User @tumee

"You were a rebel like me with those tights. Luckily, I've got the best mother-in-law who understands that I’m her daughter. When I lost my husband, I stayed with her for 3 months or so. Listen, we drink the same beverage. We grieved together. I’m still her only daughter. I love her to heaven."

User @Doris

"This is the part I don’t vote for 😫. May it never locate me because wow, I can't."

User @magical_jesska

"I'll religiously be watching your videos as I am taking this journey in Dec. Think I'm gonna need a calming pill every morning though."

User @Xoli

"I'm very fortunate cause I don't have umamazala and ubabezala (in-laws). I don't even have a sister-in-law.😁 I only have a brother-in-law 🙏🏻."

User @Oamo Makoe

"Bathong 30 days, not even one week nyana? I am grateful that I did not go through this, even today. When I get there, I sleep and wake up like everyone."

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User @Doris

"This is the part I don’t vote for 😫 may it never locate me because wow I can't."

Watch the TikTok video below:

3 Brief News articles about in-laws

• A mother-in-law visiting her son's house told her makoti to wear anything she was comfortable in, reminding her that she and her husband were visitors in their home and not there to police them.
• A humorous husband asked his wife if she didn't want to go and make a baby in front of his mother-in-law, leaving her shocked and blushing.
• A flexible mother-in-law called out other in-laws for mistreating their sons' wives, saying her makotis were like her daughters and that she even shops for them in their absence.

Source: Briefly News